I feel that lives between male/female relationships run backwards. i.e. male live their lives like side A of a cassette tape and females live their lives like side B of a cassette tape. So they're always together but when one side is running forward, the other side is running backward. Making some Chicken Cacciatore for dinner in the slow cooker. It's about ready and there's a fly buzzing around. I can't stand flies. This property I live in was haunted by flies when I first moved in here.